Dying to Know Day: Why Aussies Are Talking About Death, Legacy & Planning Ahead

Most of us spend hours planning holidays, catch-ups, or even our weekly meal prep. I know I do. But when it comes to talking about death or planning for the end of life? Silence.

That's where Dying to Know Day steps in.

Every year on 8 August, Dying to Know Day gives all of us a gentle nudge to have the conversations we usually avoid about death, dying, and what we'd want when the time comes.

Whether that's writing a Will, chatting with your parents about their wishes, or simply thinking about your legacy, this day is your official reminder to begin. And while death can feel heavy, this isn't about gloom; it's about maturity, connection, and celebration.

What Is Dying to Know Day?

Dying to Know Day is a national campaign started by The Groundswell Project Australia, inviting everyday Aussies to talk about death and plan for end-of-life before it's too late. Now in its 12th year, it's grown into a movement of community events, conversations, and storytelling. From backyard chats to panels and workshops, people across the country are opening up and getting organised.

The goal? To boost death literacy, reduce fear, and help people take action.

Why Do We Struggle With It?

If you've ever avoided this kind of thing, you're far from alone. Most Aussies don't have a Will or haven't spoken with their family about their wishes. It's not because they don't care. It's because talking about death feels… weird. Too soon. Too heavy or too hard. But avoiding the chat doesn't prevent the outcome. It just leaves loved ones guessing.

"My dad passed away suddenly. None of us knew what he wanted. That made everything so much harder."
Sarah, 46, Brisbane

When we don't talk, we lose clarity. We risk family conflict. And we miss the chance to leave something meaningful behind, not just legally, but emotionally.

What Happens When We Do Talk?

We gain peace of mind. Our families feel supported. And we get to focus on what matters.
A solid plan means:
Loved ones know what you want
Assets and wishes are protected
Your legacy reflects your values

"I thought a Will was just about money. But now I've got letters for my kids, a video for my wife, and clarity on what I want. Feels like a gift."
Marcus, 39, Melbourne

This isn't just legal admin. Planning is one of the most loving things you can do.

Not Sure Where to Start? Try This

Here are a few simple steps to help you get going:

• Check out The Groundswell Project Australia
  They're the official hosts of Dying to Know Day. Heaps of events, tips, and stories to explore.

• Book a planning session with us at Aditi
  We'll listen, explain your options in plain language, and help you feel confident. Here

• Start the chat with family
  Ask your partner, parents, or kids: "What would you want if something unexpected happened?"

You can make it easier on the people you love. And you'll feel good for finally ticking that mental box.

Let's Change the Conversation

We've spent too long treating death like a taboo. But what if it was just a regular part of life admin? Like getting your car serviced or sorting your super?

There's no perfect time to talk about these things. But now is a better time than during a crisis. Dying to Know Day gives us a moment. Let's use it. Because when we plan, we're not just preparing for death, we're making room for more living, more meaning, and deeper connection, right now.

You don't have to figure it all out today. But maybe today's the day you start.

Want a checklist or a quick chat about where to begin?

We're here for that. Let's make it easier to talk, plan, and live well right to the end.